[UPDATE] My boyfriend accused me of faking my period and demanded I show him my pad

2021.12.02 00:35 mentally-incapable- [UPDATE] My boyfriend accused me of faking my period and demanded I show him my pad

Hey y’all ! So mods took down the post due to me not having enough karma, so we are back on the original account in hopes we can keep it up. Here is the original post for those of you who want to get caught back up.
-This just happened last night. I don’t even know where to start. This is going to be long. My boyfriend (25M) got home last night after work and broke out the white claws. I (20F) guess you could say he’s a borderline alcoholic and I don’t necessarily like him drinking but he’s very firm on doing what he wants when he wants.
Things were ok for a few hours. We played the switch for a bit. We stopped after a few rounds and by this time he had had up to about 5 white claws. I didn’t count but the pile began to add up on the coffee table. He hadn’t eaten yet but had bought a steak to cook after he got off work. It was late and I had work early the next morning so I’d decided to go to bed. As I was in bed, he came in and laid down with me. He began to reach down my pants and I stopped him. I had recently got the nexplanon implant and it severely fucks with your period. I’ve been on my period for about two weeks now. I’m dying. At this point, anything coming out of me was disgusting so I didn’t want him down there. We wrestled for a bit and I kept telling him no. He eventually gave up and walked out. He came back in calling me a liar. It caught me completely out of the blue.
He believed that I was faking my period because I was pregnant and he just wanted to see the blood. I told him it made me uncomfortable and so I didn’t want him just touching it. So he then told me that this was no different than anal which he then told me I often had “a pile of poop on my butt” so this was no different. Which I then told him that this had been going on for a while and I didn’t want anything happening down there. I wasn’t up to it. So I ripped down my pants and displayed my pad, all black blood and glory in all. I stormed out and started crying. I don’t know why he would call me that. He came after me and started freaking out about me crying. He said I was playing some trump card by ripping down my pants like that. I said I didn’t want to deal with him so I said we can deal with this when you’re not tipsy and I’m not offended. So I went back to bed. He then ripped off the blanket and starting freaking out to the cat about now having to “sleep on the fucking couch now”.
So I got up, gathered my work uniform, and started looking for my keys. It was 3:30 in the morning. He freaked out when I said I was leaving and eventually helped me get my keys and I left. He called me soon after. We fought. He hung up. He then threw his phone at the wall which shattered it. It didn’t work and he started to blame me for it. I eventually turned around because I didn’t want things to end that night like that. I went back and we fought some more. He threw his phone again and now it didn’t work at all. His brand new apartment has a gash in the wall now. I was balling and just wanted to go to sleep. So we kind of smoothed it over. We both apologized and went to bed. He was so drunk he was clinging blankets everywhere looking for his phone which he forgot was broken. I got it for him and was begging to go to sleep.
I laid down with him and he began to bring my hand to his dick. I told him that we should just go to sleep and we can do that tomorrow. He kept pushing it so I eventually gave in. He then said he wanted to go all the way. I didn’t necessarily but we eventually did that too. I couldn’t sleep for hours and I’m going to work. I’m exhausted. I don’t know what to do. There seems like there’s a lot of red flags but what do I do? Is it the alcohol? Is that really him? Help.
-UPDATE-
Ok so it’s been about two years this January that I posted the first post. It’s been almost a year since I left. Yup. I left! I don’t want to post this as a “look at how awesome my life is” kind of thing. A lot of you related to the first post and many, many of you begged me to leave. Everyone was so helpful with links, personal experiences, and phone numbers I could call to get the help I clearly needed. It took about a year for me to break. I finally woke up to what had happened. I called my mom and therapist and we did an emergency evacuation. I left within a week of telling my mom. I moved far away and I haven’t seen him since. I didn’t realize that the world could actually work out in my favor. My mindset from now and that point last year is so insanely different. I am so much happier. I didn’t realize how strong and amazing I am. My voice in my head is finally my own. I refuse to remember our anniversary, just the day I finally left. I am surrounded my so many new friends and so many trusted people. I finally feel free. I never thought that I would feel that again. It felt more like a picture you see on display but I have it now. It’s in my hands. Me and only me are free. I am amazing. I love me. My only hope is that others see this too. I want to post this so others have hope. And a tad bit of celebrating. It’s only been a year and my life is radically different. It’s never a path I would have chosen but it is my path and I’m going to fight for it because I deserve it. We all do. We are worth fighting for. Please fight for you.
Ps. Your dick really was small. You’re lucky yours was my first so I couldn’t tell :)
TLDR: update for my one year leaving of my shitty ex-boyfriend!
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Everytime. Doctors also keep finding nothing.
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